Why you don’t need to “find” yourself.

STOP trying to find yourself... that's not even close to how it really works.

Finding Your Way Through Grief

Recently I looked grief in the eyes and begged her to leave me be, she didn't. Grief stayed with me, stayed with me as if I were wearing a second layer of skin. Grief was there when I went to the grocery store with messy hair and no bra, of course that's when I ran … Continue reading Finding Your Way Through Grief

Rise of The Bad Bitch

I love it. Female empowerment, feeling strong and sexy, overcoming character defects (or trying to at least) AND singing about it! Lizzo, you got me girl. The only thing is, I'm the most socially awkward book nerd of a woman you'll have ever met. I might have had it all wrong. When I thought of … Continue reading Rise of The Bad Bitch

Gossip Is Not A Form Of Connection

I just read Lauren EvartsĀ Instagram post about emotional intelligence and the last indicator of EQ was that those who have emotional intelligence do not view gossip as a way of connecting. Ā  THAT has to be one of the best things I've ever read. I'm going to be straight up honest with you, for a … Continue reading Gossip Is Not A Form Of Connection

You Gotta Teach Em’ How To Love You

My entire life I have witnessed women not exercising their own self-worth in relationships and being treated poorly. I myself am one of those women, I vowed to myself that I wouldn't become one...but as the saying goes "history always repeats itself" and sometimes you become the thing you're trying so desperately hard to run … Continue reading You Gotta Teach Em’ How To Love You

Wild Woman. Fierce Woman.

You are a wild woman. [sorry to the men if you read this, you're wild too baby] You are fierce like mother-nature, with a heart that only get's rebuilt stronger and stronger every time it's broken. To allow anyone to dull your shine would simply be a disservice to the universe, it so graciously gifted … Continue reading Wild Woman. Fierce Woman.